Saturday, November 26, 2011

Free Publicity

I have been meaning to do this for a while.  Mike and I have now been married for nearly four months!  Married life is fantastic, as was unmarried life. Side note that has nothing to do with this post: if you are single or unmarried, please ignore all the pretentiously-married people who condescendingly insist that life is suddenly more complete when you have a ring on your finger.  Married people are not better than you, don't let them make you feel bad with their obnoxious comments - they either make them to validate their own choices or they are just trying to be nice and can't hear themselves talking.  Same goes to people with kids who treat you (and me) like you are less human because you're not currently pregnant or parenting.  Tune them out like me!

Back to the idea of this post: kudos to some really hard-working wedding folks.  Our wedding was superb and the people we worked with were similarly awesome.  I have written most of the vendors from our wedding one or more positive reviews online, but I think they deserve more than that, so here goes.



Venue and Catering: Bird & Bottle Inn was our venue for the entire event and also did the food.  I could not have been happier with them.  Elaine, the owner, is accommodating, experienced, and kind.  The staff is super friendly and the food is delicious. Their Sunday brunch is really good. 



Hair: Deb's Hair Design is where I've had my hair done for the last decade.  I loved my hair and what she did with the girls' hair.  She is always great for haircuts, color, and special events.  She was wonderful throughout the morning, helping us set up a bridesmaids' brunch right in the salon.  I'll continue to go to her for as long as she'll have me!  Call 845-265-7663 to make an appointment.



Makeup: Pretty Bird Bridal, run by Brooklynite-turned-Cold Springer Dorothy makes getting your makeup done a breeze.  I am pretty sure I will never look like this again!  She also did a great job on some of the maids and both the moms, making us look nice but not trying too hard.  She'll travel to you up to a certain distance and has all the tools and gear to beautiful the whole crew.  




Photography: Carlos Thomas Photography, based in Brooklyn, is an up-and-comer with a whole lot to offer.  Carlos and Michele are knowledgable, smart, and professional at every turn.  The picture above is of my nearly 200-year old veil resting on an old lampshade covered in a grocery bag to help keep its shape, and he made that look fancy in a photograph. If you saw us storing and carrying around this thing on the aforementioned setup, you'd understand a bit more about why I was so impressed by this. :)  PS All the photos you see here are taken by Carlos and Michele.  



Dress: Got my dress at J.Crew (big surprise, I know) and had it altered at Sew Elegance in the garment district.  Esin, the expert seamstress, took my dress in perfectly and proved to me that I could wear a strapless dress without having to tug at it all night.  She is not inexpensive, but she's reliable, experienced, and really nice!




Flowers: Carolyn of Carolyn's Flower Shoppe in Cold Spring is so easy to work with, and she is really laid-back.  The bouquets and centerpieces were perfectly simple, unpretentious, and gorgeous.  To be honest, flowers were one of those (many) wedding-y things I didn't care about at all, but when I saw these babies I was amazed at how pretty they were and how much I really loved them.  Call her at 845-265-9242 for beautiful arrangements on any occasion, or order select items here. 



Ceremony music: Scarsdale's Devonshire Players, an all-female string quartet, are fantastic!  They have a very extensive rep and seem to have the wedding business down pretty well.  When it began to rain during our ceremony (!) they made it under an awning without me even noticing and played the recessional and postlude without skipping a beat! 



Officiant:  Not a vendor, but a grandpa!  One of the best parts of the day was having someone so special and important to us perform a truly personalized ceremony.  



Bakery: Eat Sweets made us a small cutting cake and three different flavors of cupcakes.  We devoured the leftover cake the week after the wedding.  Abigail and Melissa, the girls at Eat Sweet are super eager to please and offer a lot of other customizable goodies besides wedding cake, all at reasonable prices.  



Stationary: I literally don't even remember where I bought our actual invites, but the day-of stationary (menus, programs, table numbers) was all done by Graphic Nature LLC in Fishkill.  Another pair of great girls runs this local shop.  Their turnover time is fast and their designs are custom, ranging from hip to pretty to old-fashioned.  




Entertainment: Perhaps the biggest kudos go to Party Time Productions based in Highland Falls.  Patrick and John Flynn run a pretty smooth operation there.  John was our DJ and he was spot on with each and every song as well as all of the transitions.  He was super flexible and stayed totally calm through a few minor snags.  The knack this guy had for feeling out the crowd was nothing short of amazing.  These guys do more than just DJ; they offer all kinds of party necessities.  Seriously, don't bother with any other area entertainment source, these are the dudes to call.  


There we have it.  A run down of some pretty cool local businesses from a supremely happy customer. 





Tuesday, November 22, 2011

I've been a fool and I've been blind

Gushing alert.

Can someone please explain why no one ever told me about Florence and the Machine?  It took an extremely intriguing SNL performance for me to notice this girl and her band (read: creepiest vibrato of anyone alive, coolest dress ever).  I am extremely embarrassed that I have never listened to them before and am now full-on obsessed.  Lately Mike has been on this [kind of annoying] kick for "new music" where he keeps asking everyone what they listen to because he's apparently gotten bored with the several thousand songs on his computer.  Now I understand his quest; there's nothing like finding an album you can really sink your teeth into and I have sunk right in to both Lungs and Ceremonials.  Here are the simple yet abundant reasons why: red hair, prominent use of harp, aforementioned creepy vibrato, brilliant lyrics, and killer stage presence.  Also thoroughly enjoyed: smattering of super haunting melodies/vocals with white-girl dance-y beats! (See below - I am probably the last person on earth to have noticed how awesome "Dog Days" is!)

Upon further inspection I realized that she has even been on SNL before and I still had failed to jump on the bandwagon.  I even remember watching the episode, but I must have tuned out during the musical performance.  Shame on me for my ignorance and shame on you for not telling me about this fiery haired goddess.

Thursday, November 17, 2011

The Reframe

Everyone has bad days at work, and lately I have had what I consider to be a disproportionate number of them.  The honeymoon period of the first months of school is over and I am unspririsingly entering the super-self-critical stage of the year.  It's freaking crunch time and there is too much to be done for me to waste my emotional energy on anything but the kids.

I have come to realize that the recent bad days have been merely a matter of maladjusted perspective.  My kids are awesome.  I should not care about anything else.  Yesterday I let a bad afternoon ruin my entire day, but nothing should have been able to discount the fact that earlier in the day my kids got their highest class averages yet on an exam, and that I had a significant number of kids master every standard I tested them on, including one girl who told me during advisory that this year so far has made her "love math so much."  I've reworked my mindset and I'm ready to let go of the nonsense.  I do love my job 99% of the time, and the 1% can pretty much just go to hell.